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Oregon Book Awards Author Tour + Alone Time Tomorrow night at 7pm I will kickoff the Oregon Book Awards Author Tour at the Eugene Public Library, followed by K.B. Dixon, Jill Kelly and Linda Zuckerman. The event is hosted by Susan Denning of Literary Arts. Tell your Eugene friends and relatives to come on down and listen and enjoy. Each of us will read for about fifteen minutes, followed by a question and answer session and book signing. Books will be on sale at the library--remember that The Brides of March is a "same-sex memoir you can bring home to mother", so urge a copy on your pals and let the debate continue in homes across Oregon (the Multnomah County Library invested in a dozen copies, so they are readily available there, too, check them out!). For more info on the reading in Eugene, click on: The following night we will be reading in North Bend, so let your friends and relatives in North Bend and Coos Bay know too. Meaning that I will be meandering in my flower-power minivan for almost three days without the fam', an unheard of amount of alone time. I plan on sleeping, reading like a crazy woman and pondering the fate of my protagonists in my latest book. I may eat irresponsibly, too. |
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Come to QLiterati! On Wednesday, October 8th at 7pm at Portland QCenter
Join hosts Diane and Jacob Anderson-Minshall, featured authors Ariel Gore (founder of Hip Mama and author of several books, including her most recent, How To Become a Famous Author Before You’re Dead*), Tammy Stoner of Pink Pea, and me, Beren deMotier (Curve contributor and author of 2008 Oregon Book Award Finalist The Brides of March: Memoir of a Same-Sex Marriage), for an evening of queer lit, cookies, and book signing among an enthusiastic and curiously well-dressed crowd.
For more info on this cool event for both queer and straight-but-not-narrow readers, go to: http://www.curvemag.com/Curve-Magazine/C
See you there! And please, alert anyone you think might enjoy the event.
Beren
*I’ll be buying a copy and getting it signed |
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Oregon Book Awards Even sixteen months after publication, cool things can happen with a book. On Sept. 5th, I found out that my book, The Brides of March, is a Finalist for the Oregon Book Awards Sarah Winnemucca Award for Creative Nonfiction. Deep sigh of artistic satisfaction and gratitude. Months ago, when I sent in the application (as a self-published author, this job comes to me), it was an obvious long-shot. I thought that if I was a Finalist, that itself would be a win. And it is. I will go to the 22nd Annual Oregon Book Awards ceremony on November 9th with my spouse, happy just to be there among such amazing authors. I love Oregon. It is a great place to be a writer. http://www.literary-arts.org/index.php?a |
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The Glamorous World of a Writer On a single day (June 17th) I had the thrill of taking part in a literary round-table on the state of GLBT literature on KBOO, and the potentially devastating disappointment of having not a single person show up for my reading at In Other Words, despite ample publicity including a plug on the radio that day. I say "potentially devastating" because while my spouse told me she'd have cried, I saw it as forty-five minutes away by myself (while awaiting my no-show audience), and then as an opportunity to spend unscheduled family time together since my spouse wasn't working late because she had to be home while I was gone. The volunteer at In Other Words was apologetic and cast out reason after reason for the resounding silence in the store, but I was truly cool with it. As referred to in my last entry, having a kid with a cutting edge condition (and one that takes a lot of focus), helps keep things in perspective. In fact, this moment at the computer is a rarity these days. Summer vacation is never a vacation for a stay-at-home mom with young kids--it just means more people to feed, amuse, transport and clean up after, day after day. But full-day school is an oasis on the horizon, and in poor poor pitiful me moments, I remember that and take a deep breath and know that words will flow again in a few weeks. |
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And the Good News Is I won the Gold in the Foreword Magazine Book of the Year Awards in the gay & lesbian non-fiction category. I nice thing to happen during Book Expo America, and hopefully a stepping stone to other things. Below is the invite to the reading at In Other Words. Pass it along to friends, acquaintances and anyone you want to have a healthy debate about same-sex marriage with. Walk Down the Aisle With Me at In Other Words Bookstore Remember those giddy days when same-sex marriage happened here, in Tell five friends about the reading, suggest it to your book group (guaranteed to get discussion cracking while domestic partnerships are edging closer to the ballot), drag along your reluctant in-law, and enjoy an evening of laughter and tears in a cozy atmosphere guaranteed to give you flashbacks of freshman year. The Brides of March won a Foreword Magazine Book of the Year Award, a National Indie Excellence Award, an Independent Publisher Book Award, a Reader Views Award and an Honorable Mention in the Writer’s Digest International Self-Published Book Awards. In Other Words Bookstore is located at 8 NE Killingsworth (at |
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Keeping a blog takes more time than I would imagine, or can imagine, at this particular juncture. That said, it is lamentably true that I have neglected this space, but here are one or two news items for those who care and read this: I WILL be reading at the amazing In Other Words on June 17th at 6:30 pm. come on down and walk down memory lane with me. The Brides of March has had some award activity. I think I mentioned my Reader Views Honorary Mention award, but since then I won the NIEA (national indie excellence award) under Current Events Politics/social category, which was pleasing, plus a Bronze Award in the IPPY's, under gay & lesbian. This week I will discover whether I go (the book really) from Finalist to Winner in the Foreword Magazine Book of the Year awards, but not til Thursday or Friday. More on that then. It is nice to know that The Brides of March will have a Book Expo presence of some sort. On another note, it has been my pleasure to have an article in Curve Magazine for three issues running: one on trying on wedding dresses, one on being an invisible minority with our autistic son, and this month's on camping, lesbian-style. Check them out if you have time, and let me know what you think. I have been hiding out in Harry Potter on headphones for a few weeks now, but I'm six tapes away from the end of The Deathly Hallows, and J. K. Rowling has been a good therapist while processing lots of new information on the parenting front--having a child with a cutting edge condition means endless amounts of "new research" and "Must Dos." It is all this muggle can handle at the moment to listen to Jim Dale tell the story of one wizard on a hero's journey while scrubbing dishes and catching up with the laundry. But more posts are coming soon. |
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365 days ago, my book was published. I know this because the at-a-glance calendar I use to plot my due dates is still attached to my office wall, as if I would forget anyway. Publishing a book is a fairly big deal. Self-publishing is also a big deal, but a different deal from publishing with a house that pays YOU to put your book on shelves, however, here are some reflections from that process: There was very little angsting about what "they" were doing to promote my book--I could take action, or not, as I chose I was able to have influence on cover design, blurbs, bios and copy, and I'm pretty darned happy about the result The book is still available--from what I hear, a book has six weeks to make it or break it, before it is pulled and sent back to the shredder; by self-publishing I have more time to gain momentum for this kind of book, which isn't exactly a blockbuster full of blood, action and post-apocalyptic threat People are still buying it in venues all over the world--it may seem a little thing, but I love that copies are selling in the UK, my Scottish genes are happy campers It may still get on bookshelves near YOU from a wholesaler--the countdown continues, every sale brings it closer to "standard wholesale terms" including returnability, the green light to bookstores to take a risk and slap it on the shelves In the last year The Brides of March has: Received an honorable mention in the Writers Digest Intl. Self-published Book Awards Received an honorable mention in the Reader Views Awards Become a Foreword Magazine BOTY Finalist Been read by two book clubs Been carried on 9 bookstore shelves, despite being a POD title Had 6 positive reviews, including two author interviews Been talked about on three radio stations, including two author interviews There are also several kettles on the hob, hoping for steam: The Foreword Book of the Year Awards approach, and The Brides of March is a finalist. The IPPY finalists will be announced soon, as well as the National Indie Excellence Awards and I'm crossing my fingers A possible ad op through iUniverse featuring the book as an example of iUniverse's potential for glbt authors Other undisclosed kettles, check in for more... Plus the always delightful Author Reading, the next is at In Other Words, the sole surviving feminist non-profit bookstore in the United States, June 17th at 6:30pm. Should be a hoot. Despite not being an incredible extrovert, I enjoy these because the anxiety of public speaking is always dwarfed by the concerns and foibles of family life, and by doing a reading, I am actually on a grownup outing! Plus, I'm passionate about same-sex marriage, it's hard for me to shut up about it. Happy Birthday Book |
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One Month Later Ah, so much has happened. First, I wasn't a finalist for either the Lambda or Publishing Triangle awards, long shots, but meaningful. I had a bummed out day and ate ice cream and watched Star Wars on the plasma TV and got over it. Pity party for one. Second, I forgotten I'd even entered the Reader Views Awards, so was pleasantly surprised to learn I'd won Honorary Mention in the Gay & Lesbian Non-fiction category. Good publicity always helps, and they sent pretty gold stickers to put on books and logos to put on my website, which I have yet to do, but will get to soon. I continue to wait on February sales. Probably there will be no big surprises there, but one can always hope. Perhaps there was a run on copies in the midwest, when the Midwest Book Review ran a review awhile back. A podcast seems an intriguing way of garnering exposure, and I hope to enlist my technically savvy children for help. My oldest son is currently developing an animated short preparatory to filming a longer series, and I'm blown away by his ability. It's nice to have talented children. More soon. |
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Forgive Me Father For I Have Sinned Or so I would begin if I were Catholic. It has been too long since I've posted, and while I have plenty of legitimate excuses, it is still wrong to begin something and dump it to the roadside as life gets in the way. Especially if allegedly you are writing something with the purpose of illuminating your journey to help others. That was the idea when I started posting about the journey from submission to publication, from publication to publicity, from product to sales, and sale to...? Who knows! The reality is that self-publication, even through a POD, is hard work, and that someone with more time and energy to devote to it might do a better job, but we all work with what we have, right? First, the good news: The Brides of March now has the Reader's Choice designation through iUniverse, meaning I've over halfway to standard wholesale terms, the holy grail of POD books, and the only terms that non-local bookstores will consider. This is a numbers game, and if anyone out there wants to begin a grassroots effort to promote the book via an e-mail chain, I would be eternally appreciative. The second piece of good news is that The Brides of March is a Finalist in the Foreword Magazine Book of the Year Awards. This MAY result in an award being announced at BookExpo in late May, or may not. I can but hope that the book is good enough, and that the judge it goes to doesn't have a thing against colloquial language and lesbians with long hair. The third piece of good news is that I have an upcoming reading at In Other Words on June 17th, just after Pride in Portland, Oregon. In Other Words is the last surviving non-profit feminist bookstore in the United States, and when I'm there I am catapulted back in time to college days when I billed myself as a radicalesbianfeminist in letters to the editor, and was thinking of going into feminist theory (before taking up erotic entertainment for women as a hobby and meeting the "wholesome as a warm slice of wheat bread" woman who would change my life, leading me to my present career as a lesbian housewife/writer/artist, something feminism absolutely prepared me for, resulting in politically aware progressive kids). I love the smell of the place, the intelligent literature, the angry, ironic bumper stickers, and the belief that people can change the world for the better. I am extremely grateful to share the book with an audience there. I await with great anxiety the announcements of finalists for the Lambda and Publishing Triangle awards. Both come this month, and the outcome will determine my next move in promoting the book and reaching readers. More on that later. It would be an honor to be a finalist, as well as a dream come true. The fourth piece of good news is that there seems to be a lot of activity overseas about the book. Folks are checking it out online in many countries and I've sold several copies in the UK. How cool is that? The bad news is that online sales seem slow. I await February sales figures with my fingers crossed. It will mean that many fewer copies before wholesale terms are reached. Wish me luck. |
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And the book goes on... The reading at St. John's Bookseller was an intimate reading and enjoyable to me. It is always lovely to preach to the choir, and there were even two folks there who weren't already card-carrying members of my people. You never know what will lead to another avenue to readers. The best part of a reading is always when someone laughs out loud. There is almost nothing as satisfying, though hearing that someone has cried is a pretty close second. Thanks to anti-anxiety medication, readings aren't as terrifying as they might be, even for this stay-at-home mom. Which is good since I've been invited to speak to a church group this weekend with a week's notice. They shared many of the experiences in the book, so it will be an especially meaningful event. I did a count today and discovered that I am 119 copies away from standard wholesale terms. This begins to seem doable and I am crossing my fingers that they will be sold before the book is one year old in late April. Is that too much to ask? Making the book available to stores on a wholesale/returnable basis has always been one of my goals, and it seems in sight. The first week of March the February sales will post, and I will know whether I am closer to the goal, and by how much. I'll be crossing my fingers. |
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